How to Handle and Overcome Failure?

 Failure is something that happens when we don't achieve as per our expectations. Failure can't be associated with those that don't even work for their target. So, failure is just the result of not so perfect performance.And not that you are waste... repeat that, U R Not A Waste-body!

Do yourselves a favour, stop being NEGATIVE.Atleast you be kind to yourself if not the world or your fortune is towards to you. What's the use,you may ask. What's the use being neutral or worse negative, it will further sabotage of whatever is left in you, only leading to your grave, before death.

Sounds harsh, but it's the dead truth. Being positive instills hope, courage, confidence, you start dreaming again, I repeat you need to dream then believe later obviously Work, to Achieve. You be your own guiding light. Until you are positive from inside,no external force can ever drive you to success.

None of the hard-workers like failure. It is the worst thing that can happen. We just can't accept the reasons of failure. Like:

Not so proper preparation.

Imperfect performance. 

Fate! Yes it exists...either past or present deeds impact.

May be something big awaits and u r bound to focus on that.

Yes,most of us can't accept any of this. But if v accept these and try to work beyond limits, I don't think why God wudnt bless us. 

And yes,it's not that easy to woo God either🙃...

The famous line from Geeta 

Karmanyevadhikaraste Ma phaleshu kadhachana!

Its so so difficult to accept this, but ultimate bliss lies in accepting and adapting this.

Give your 150%, leave the results to God.

My belief is that we can rest atleast guilt-free..of having given it all, the results is for the power to decide. 

It so happens if you are a rank student and you miss your desired rank, u can never get it back. Anything else can be achieved but not rank. Once gone is gone forever. But remember any incident should not decide your worth.

That's because, let's say you were the topper, later a new one comes. So the latter didn't quit, so should not you. The latter didn't think of them as a failure, instead worked harder for the success, so should You...

Be a narcissist if you want,but only for your confidence. Be like C.Ronaldo, he always sees himself as the best. That power, that confidence will never let self doubt, never let insecurity creep in. Believing yourself despite of the outer competition, irrespective of the results of the work, is the greatest power of all...

How to overcome the failure and walk towards success?

ADOPT MY BLAMESELF THEORY...

This does not mean to self sabotage yourself and drown into self doubt and insecurities. This only means to take responsibility for the failure and take charge so that it never happens again. Blaming the fate or God, has a large negative impact as it makes us to believing that we will never improve as we are not the BLESSED ONES, nor lucky...That is not true. We are grateful for ample amount of things where God has favored us. Hence, take the blame of this failure, saying to yourself, Okay, this time its my fault. This shall never repeat ever again. I will definitely work 150% and make sure that I win it. Its because I am born to Win. I am God's favourite child. God always has my back.

Take some break, sleep a little extra to get over the sadness, wake up fresh and recharged, all set to rule the world with confidence, self belief, passion and gratitude.

Say this affirmation to yourself,

I am the greatest. I am the best. Nothing can decide my worth. No worldly results can decide my abilities. I am the master of my destiny. I am born for a greater purpose. Puny failures can never stop me. Let me work even harder, and I'll see who can stop me from getting what I want.💪💥

What if the fate is rotten,what if the sword is broken... I'll win all the  wars from this broken sword itself... Kar Har Maidan Fathei! 

God has given all that is needed for you to achieve. Be grateful. Work harder. Achieve.

You believing and sinking into thinking that you are a failure is the biggest and worst failure of life. Doesn't matter if anyone believes in you or not , doesn't matter if your fate is excellent or not. Never stop believing,never ever stop working. No time for insecurity and depression. No one is better than you. You are unique and the best possible.

You become a failure once you quit trying,until then you are star in making. Just focus that you put your efforts in the right direction, patience and dedication is all that matters.

Standup ,dust yourself, stop crying, bring in the fire and work greater than ever. Only you are your competition. Being better than yesterday is the enough credential that you are growing. Be guilt free by giving all that you have and stay rest assured that you are meant to win it.

Radhe Radhe💕🎯