Ola fam, today's Blog is one of those psychology topics that I'm writing out of experience and from hearing wise people.
Listen to the podcast on the importance of Acceptance: ACCEPTANCE
It is about the ultimate bliss and power of Acceptance. You will not believe until you experience on your own. Once you accept a situation, a person or anything, you will find this different emotion flowing which wasn't seen until u hung up to it.
Acceptance, in my opinion is one form of detachment. How is that you may ask? It is.
Let's say you have to accept the fact that your close friend or relative lied to you ,or cheated you in any situation. Two things can be done:
Accept and forgive
Or
Accept and break the friendship if you can't stand negative energy.
Both of these is correct. But notice that Acceptance is a common thing in both, so you can't avoid it.
You can forgive them if you believe they will never repeat it. You need not continue the relationship if you feel they will never change. It is completely fine and not a crime to get out of even smallest form of toxicity like a lie or a big toxic issue. Stop being target of negative energies, you are loyal and you deserve loyalty.
So how to implement acceptance.
I can give in an idea or faith that I believe. I believe a lot in karma. Past , present both karmas. Whatever happens in this life is a result of both karmas. So if something happens,be it good or bad,it is to finish off the karmic account. This belief gives an unexplainable relief. We often start questioning as to why is this happening to me, and it triggers when we can't find answers to it. That is when this past karma concept comes to help. Accept that this has happened to nullify past karma. This will give immense relaxation and helps you let go of the situation. Acceptance is thus that ultimate power by which we can implement detachment which is needed much in life.
This holds true for any situation. Be it missing an opportunity,not getting what you want and so on. Don't be negative while performing the task. Be whole heartedly involved in what you do and enjoy it. Results are in God's hands so don't stress on that. I know this is easier said than done, even I find it difficult to follow. But don't stop trying. Practice gives perfection remember 😜.
So Accept each and every situation and people. Have your mind under your control and don't allow people's dirt to stick to your mental state.
Now coming to another important corner. Self acceptance. This is a big predicament in today's world. Without you accepting yourself, none will ever even try to accept you. The concept of self love is surging these days for the same reason. You don't need to impress anyone but The Lord. Be good ,do good. That's more than enough. You may change yourself to improve. That is called growth. But don't do it for getting into social standards ,for fitting into peer group,or any other parameters. You exercise to stay fit and not out of fear that people are fat shamming you. You apply make up because you want to and not that people are commenting on the scars, or your skin colour. You dress in any style because you like that way and not out of fear of missing out. You are the Ruler of your life darling. You live the way you love. Accept your external and internal self. There's always room for improvement,but not for insecurity.
Don't let others judgement disturb you even by 0.000001%. I hope this principle brings down depression and suicidal rates.
Let us all pledge to create a beautiful community where people radiate nothing but love and positivity.
Preserve your energy cycle and radiate happiness and positivity. And always perform good deeds so that you can beautify your karmic account.
Radhe Radhe💕
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